Big hugs HC, wish all this crap wasn't happening to you guys You're right to stand your ground hun, if he says he's going to get help that's great, but you'll need to see proof first. I hope he's committed to really giving it a crack.

Teresa, I was actually wondering if you could possibly be UTD, but I know where you and your hubby stand on the subject so I didn't say it, hehe. BUT, remember hun, if it's meant to be it's meant to be, baby comes when he/she wants to come Will be stalking your news. And BTW, I have heard plenty of times where people weren't ready or not even sure if they wanted a baby or another baby, and then when the pg was confirmed, they got all excited...hope you get the outcome you want hun xox