LJ I let Robert dictate the daytime feeds. If he wants to feed every 2 hours I just go with it. With his day sleeping I just watch for the tired signs. Some days it's a morning nap, then a lunchtime sleep (2hrs or longer) then an afternoon nap. Other days we have just two really long sleeps then on other days it can also be down for an hour up for an hour. I've even had days when he just wakes for a feed. I just keep an eye on him to make sure we don't hit a meltdown. I've gotten some good pointers from my baby books like Babybliss, but I figure he's my baby and I know him best. My theory is that if the night sleeps are working I'm happy.