rosey - if you're looking at a carrier like the babt.bjorn can i suggedt checking out a carrier like an ergo or beco. im quite new to baby wearing but there's some interesting info around on how the bb doesnt support babies as well as dome other carriers (something to do with how their legs dangle).
as for sleep - my ds was the same & i only managed to get him to nap consistently off me when he was about 5-6 months. he would sometimes sleep in the pram if we went for a walk & sometimes in a bassinet but mostly on me. i tried to fight it but then decided to go with the flow & read books, catch up on tv shows etc. it does get easier imo when they start having more regular naps & they're more happy to play on the floor etc. - then you're not chained to the couch as much! and nothing to do with bfing - all to do with wanting to be close to mum. some ppl call the first 3 months the 4th tri as baby gets used to life on the outside.
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