Elocin, it's not you, it's Connor! You are doing everything right - you feed him, keep him dry and clean, play with him and most importantly, love him - but you can't 'sleep' him. The most you can do is provide the environment and opportunity. He's still learning to do the next bit but he will.

This won't be forever. Remember only recently those massive overnight sleeps? They'll be back, seriously. But you need to take care of yourself and recharge in the meantime. You could co-sleep or see if a family member or friend could watch him while you rest. Get DH home if you have to!

I feel for you, trust me - it sucks. We had a shocker yesterday and I was in tears when DH got home. He gave me the exact same advice above.

Deep yoga breaths and keep doing exactly what you're doing. A very wise woman once said that to me