i dont think i can let adam get snipped, as much as i dont want to be on contraception forever i dont think i can take the choice of another baby away from us permenantly just yet.
That's exactly how I felt after we had Shayla. Hubby was ready for the snip, and I was dealing with the thought of never having another baby, but I wasn't ready for the finality of a vasectomy. It's one thing to say you are never having another baby, but a whole different thing emotionally to KNOW you can never have another. That's how our little surprise came along, lol. As much as it saddens me that I'll never be pregnant again and have another baby, I know how much hubby doesn't want another and am super thankful that I have Arlia, so I'm accepting of the snip this time. Hubby is booked in for next month some time.