Hugs Krystie, it is hard work. Maybe go back and re read and see if there is something u have forgotten to do? For me I can only think that perhaps not asking him is one of the points, just reminding him to keep his jocks dry? Regardless of that tho I think that u should just do what works for you. If kyson isn't ready, he isn't ready. Don't feel bad if u have to wait and try again. That is just what u need to do if he doesn't get it tomorrow for ur own sanity! I TT mima at 10 weeks preg so I remember how exhausting it was. She only just got it on the third day. Maybe will miraculously get it tomorrow. Fingers crossed!