sounds like maybe you should find out the gender Arte! i reckon it may help w bonding if you can picture him/her etc. and then you can get planning more etc. i hope no 3 is abetter sleeper - i also did the 2 hrly wake up with J til about 12-15 months and man it was tough. i dontknow how i got through it and hate to think how i was at work some of the time. he is a lot better now, not perfect but muchbetter and i am like a different person. N was also hard - i remember him waking for up to 3 hrs a time between 12 and 18 mnths (and also did 2 hrly wake ups to 12 months) - so i am thinking i need 3 yrs of good sleep now to feel human again...
had a good weekend, did a house swap w mum on sat night - so slept in til 8 on su8ndsy and went for a walk and bfast with dh before we met the boys at 10.30 in the park!