I'm ok. I don't think the Wellington one was out of the norm, they always have lots of little ones there. I am just down about the whole thing. By the time it is all said and done they are predicting around 240 deaths. 240 people, just doing their everyday things and then all of a sudden gone. The cathedral is a tomb. Many of those missing will never be found and will never go home to their families.

Reading but not posting much. So tired and W has started with the mega screaming bedtimes again so I get to deal with that as well as DH being an A-hole because it is obviously my fault and I have ruined W for life by allowing him to be difficult at bedtime. Grrr. Can't be ****ed with his crap as well. Far out I wish I had left him years ago when I wanted to before we were tied down with the kids.