G: the op will go fine I am sure. and yeah, i guess the contigency really is what to do with J? will his granddad be able to take him during the day?

Arte: oh man, i *hate* going for that first clothes shop after baby. it needs to be done, to get it over with, but then it is wise to hide back in the cave for a few months and lick those flouro-light induced wounds lol. i am still horrified when i catch a glimpse of myself nakie...and that is a year later