cass- has your mil been hanging around with my mil? that sounds like something she would say. biatch!!!! maybe next time she comments on your dress you should mention to her that you've seen a new anti-wrinkle cream on the market that is supposed to work miracles and that she really should try it

arte- yes it is great to have a date for op but i am super anxious about it. i am worried about leaving j for that long as we are super close (little J that is, not big J) lol. also worried about L of course, but am just hoping it all goes perfectly. the surgeon seems really competent so that has given me more confidence about the whole thing.

cally- it was lovely here today too, but now it has turned and we have a fire going! looks like a few good days this week though