Cass - you're not over reacting. I definitely think it's worth mentioning it to the carers, they may already have concerns or it might mean they keep a bit of a closer eye on her.

Trill - big decision, but I think it is worth it if you're concerned he's just going to coast through school and not try. That's one of the things that I am concerned about with K's schooling, particularly after the experience DH had.