OH yeah Cass! You will need to do what we did and buy shares in Sorbent The gender thing is funny the way it affects us isn't it? I know my experience is entirely different because I do have both genders, but when I was pg with A I honestly don't know what I would have done had he not been a he. And friends of ours have just had their first boy after two girls and our friend is the only son, so he felt huge pressure to have a son himself and said the other day that it's like a weight was lifted from him. But I think children of any gender are such a gift so I reckoned I would have coped.

Wow JM, a year sure has gone fast! Are you doing anything special for her birthday or not?

MD, I think a girls-only pampering weekend is in order for you and the girls