Cass, I feed her back to sleep every time she wakes. But I don't think she is waking for comfort feeds, she seems to be uncomfortable and whinges and twists around. Sometimes after she has been awake for a couple of hours pulling my hair and dive bombing my face and whinging, she will do a heap of farts and then she will go to sleep. I suspect there is something not right with her tummy (very runny nappies too) but I have been to the Dr and he just said the standard leave her to cry or bottle feed.
I doubt having her in the same bed as the other kids would help - she co-sleeps with us and still wakes, even if DH is just in there.

I wish I had never had children.