10pm is not unusual around here for A. She has always been a night owl. They all go to bed at 8pm but most nights she is chattering away to all her friends (soft toys lol) or drawing pictures, singing etc until 9 at the earliest. She usually stays in her room entertaining herself though so it is alright. I am totally envious of those people that can get their kids to bed early but what we have now was not easy to come by so I won't complain