Cass, sorry that happened to you What on earth makes some people think they are entitled to elderly relatives things?! This always bothers me.
If they are the sort of people that lack respect for their elders and have such limited decency then you are way too good for them! Who cares what they think of you - sounds like they prejudged you anyway so it was never going to be any different itms. I am sure your grandfather will be ok with you, even if he is fine with people taking his stuff he will still see that you are on his team.

Congrats to L on her award

Totally nailed the best chocolate chip biscuits ever this afternoon.