Arte, I hope it doesn't feel like we are ganging up on you - we're just really worried about you and how this is affecting all of you. We care about you so much and we feel pretty helpless, but some of the things he does is just starting to look like there is something bigger going on with him. I know you probably don't think that there is anything wrong - but please just think about it as an option. I think Ange is on the right track.