kate: After little miss was born my AF lasted 9 days, then stopped, and then got a really light AF on the 20th of last month so am expecting them anytime soon now. It normally takes my body about 4-5 months to go back to normal. However we have DTD without protection but I don't feel preg, and I know they tell us BF is not a form of proctection, yet I never got preg when I was BF others, so I doubt it, AF should appear this week sometime. I am booked into get the IED wacked in on the 5th of July so I can't wait for that...

BG: I know what you mean about the PAUSE button. You think with how far we have come in history we would have found something... They only way I can think of it not feed them. But that is just mean, andLM would cry and I would give her boobie just for the quite. Not sure how mother's cope in 3rd world countries etc... thinking about the makes me sad.

I only find it harder when they are closer together. There is 6y8m between DD1 and DS1 & 2y7m between DS1 & DS2 and there is just under 2y between DS2 and LM. It gets full on at times, but I am managing much better with her and other kids since she has learnt to 'self sooth' her self. We don't have long cry times now, it down to a few call out then she just looks around her bed, and sum times talks to her self.
WE are also at the talking stage. She is only 3m and could talk the hind legs off a mule. She loves her play mate and talker to her toys then bashes them... But loves to talk alot esp with DD1. They boys annoy her, which I find funny...

GUESS WHAT EVERYONE... Today the cornus plaster goes up in kitchen and office... They wil be FINALLY finished. unless I have to paint then by the end of the week. It has taken 2y for kitchen and 4y for office... It was just finding someone to dit as DH would mess it up and I want it a 'nice' finshed job...

Well I better go I have to move eveyrthing out of kitchen so I better go. I hope you are all keeping well...

Cheers