Well my crappy night was due to my son, and not my daughter. He screamed for about and hour and a half because after he started mucking around, I took all his fave toys out of his room and told him that they were gone and he couldn't have them today. He woke E (who keeps standing in her cot when upset) so I had them both awake. I have had it with him. I just don't know what to do. He goes great for a few weeks, then back to this. I think I am playing in to it. I think I needto go in once to see whats wrong, and tell him I am not coming back, and if he gets upset, then so be it.

we went to a wedding last night so didn't get home till modnight. Kids were at home with PIL, who had filled J up on all sorts of sugar, and let him go to bed way too late