Oh Nai that sounds like a horrible night you've had. I hope you can get some rest this afternoon. You too Olive.

Kailani - Thats great that L is settling quicker. I do that too sometimes, stay up til all hours when I should be in bed!

I do still have Tracey's addy (assuming she hasn't moved). I remember reading in a thread ages ago that she valued every opportunity to acknowledge and honour the memory of Milana. I think it would mean a great deal to her if we acknowledge Milana's birthday somehow. I will have a think.

ETA - There is a bit of debate on in my house/family atm about the colour of DS's eyes. If you get time, could you all check his pic on my profile page next time you're in fb and offer your opinion? Ta.