Dh is going to continue the method.. i can't cope seeing Alex crying so I'll settle him as best I can during the day (and I really have no idea how to do it apart from put him on the breast), until i get some professional help. The cousellor I saw said that she has had a lot of women who have gone through IVF showing signs of stress and combined with PTSD and an emergency C-section (which I found really traumatic) it's all got on top of me. just taking one hour/day at a time and that is all I can do.