We have hand-holding refusal as well. I have practically dragged her by the wrist at times when she is screaming but she gets the option - I carry her or she holds my hand. In light of what happened Friday at our school she may not even get an option at that crossing anymore.

She also refuses to eat things but then she will everything in sight the next day - I can't predict it. I know her final tooth is about to break through so that could explain things so I hope it comes through soon!