Well the night was better than I expected. She woke at 10:30 had her bottle only drank half then smiled at me and settled herself back to sleep, slept til 1:30 then crying crying, did a poo changed her then offered rest of the bottle, then I tried settling again, easier knowing she is clean and got milk in her tummy. Think she got to sleep just after 2:30 woke at 5:30, settled by 6:15 and woke at 7:15 for bottle. We chatted in bed for awhile then she went off to sleep again on her own and is still asleep! I went back to sleep too, got up at 10 and Df got up with Ash this morn.
So think we are on the right track, yes there is crying but I do stay with her til she settles and she is sleeping longer now instead of cat napping. So this morn I threw the dummies in the bin so not to tempt me, we have been dummy free for 28 hrs!
Only prob now is I don't know in the night if she is crying for the dummy or hunger. She used to spit out dummy and cry if she was hungry, but I guess she was having one feed a night prior I'll give her one feed still.

Det- Hope the migraine settles, they're awful, I had forgotten how bad they were til I got one last week.