You are right there Leah. I thought bf this time round was going to be so easy seeing as I had it easy with Amber. Ande yep I really didnt take care of my nipples while in hospital. We are getting there slowly.
We are having a horror night and today. I think Alice is turning into her sister where sleep during the day becomes a novelty. Hopefully we can keep her on the straight and narrow.
In regards to dummies, I didnt want to use one on Alice as Amber has an obsession with hers. However on a couple of really unsettled periods we have tried the dummy and she sucks it a little. Just enough to calm her down. I dont want to rely on it though because I remember when Amber was younger and was sleeping and it fell out and we were up so many times during the night to put it back in.

How is everyone coping with a toddler (if you have one) and a newborn. Its a challenge.....