*Infinity* : i too read your BA and your little girl sounds like a fighter! i hope its a smooth road that you'll walk, she has the best mummy for her!

Erica: Ahh sweets, when your DH goes back to work it'll sort its self out. as for night and day - i know with DJ i let him sleep with the certons open in his room of a day and night closed them - so when he went to sleep it was like KWIM? also you'll find that when your little man was most active in the belly is when he'll be most active now!

Hello laides.
Mr Vic (0r monkey as he's known LOL) is in SCN. due to an infection which has the peads scratching their heads about. (trust, its my son who makes them wonder whats happening LOL) he's been there since he was about an hour and a half old. but doing well. shows no signs of being sick - other then the numbers from the bloods he's had done. they're mainly worried about meningitus at this point - as they did a Lumber Puncure yesterday and the pre-limb results showed white blood cells (i think the number was around 16 - or something so low) which means there is/was an infection but we'll *hopefully* find out what it was on monday (they need 48hrs to grow a culture) and depending on what it is he'll be home in 10days or upto three weeks (tendays starting from the day he was born BTW) so now we wait and see. other then that he's good. Ohh and has toung tie (again had that with DJ - so it was expected) but he's very, very good at breast feeding. the only down side is my nipple is a little mis-shapen but meh. its worth it. (the pumps the hospital hurt more then Vic do! haha) my milk came in yesterday so i was in tears on and off. but going good now. on monday DH, Vic and myself are *all* having a blood test to rule out any gentic flock up. but thats a maybe as the peads dont seem to think it is - i kind of would like not to have it - seeing as i get the short end of the stick and they'd need to take 50ml of blood from me (and 40ml from DH and 3ml from Vic) but we'll do it if need be. my feet...well my cankles are HUGE but thats due to the SCN and lack of ablity to "put my feet up" and my max 4hours sleep a night isn't helping also but hopefully it'll get better now Vic is on 4hourly feeds in SCN, so it'll give me more time between feeds to be at home (during the day - as next week DH will be back at work so night feeds will be EBM) now i better head off back to the hospital. as Vic will need a feed at around 9- 9:30.
i'll be nice having some other mummies to talk to :-D