I am pretty lucky in regard to Ashtons naps. He just goes down with a bottle and straight to sleep.

However in this house, youngest goes first. So if Elijah starts when Ashton wants me, Ashton waits. Same with the older boys, if Ash wants something they wait. The way I see it is Elijah doesn't understand why he's being left to cry, where Ashton understands a lot more. I will tell him to help me with bubby which helps. Or else I tell him that bubby needs mumma and he has to wait. Helps being super multitasker because I can walk and feed lol the other day I slept in the arvo, woke up with 10 minutes until school pick up! So ended up walking down the street, feeding Elijah with one arm, and dragging a tantruming Ashton with the other lol musta been a sight!! But we made it in time

Don't stress about it hun, just go with it. You'll work out ways to deal with things as they come up. Just remember to breath when you're feeling overwhelmed. Sometimes it helps to sit and refocus for 5 minutes.