Hi Telly - terrible isn't it! And I hate to sound horrible but yes she is that clueless....when she came into the hospital to see Amelia she didn't even want to hold her as she hadn't a clue about how to hold a baby...I know not everyone has held a baby but given she's 28 and she was 8 months pregnant you'd think she would've at least had an idea!!! Funny though, she just emailed me to say that her baby has been waking up at 2.30 am and 4.30 am and doesn't understand what's wrong........she usually let's her sleep 6/7 hours through the night! Welcome to stage 2 of....the week 1 of nothing but sleeping and eating honeymoon is over. At least she'll be feeding her more, I was really concerned about that, it's so bad for their health and development to not get enough food in the first few weeks especially.