Sarah, of course you did the right thing. You were a friend to her and u respected her wishes. She would have been upset if you hadn't. I'm a bit confused.. When did she actually lose Hannah? She never told me, she just said it was "some time ago". How did her other friends not find out? (on FB) Do you think she had many friends? It's just on FB there is just us and a couple of others. Sorry about all the questions but I can't stop thinking about her...