Clover - i do the same thing and just make sure Cooper is wearing a full suit to bed so he doesnt get cold, it seems to be working fine now but the weather is cooling down already, target its having a sale on sleeping bags (the ones with the holes in them that you discribed) and they are sleeveless so i can just put him in a long sleeve suit or short sleeve to accomodate for the weather. i think thats the go, but also im thinking why fix whats not broke?? he is an absolute champion sleeper and doesnt seem to mind if he gets hot or cold, its just me that worries lol

Beckles - im sooo sorry babes. i wish there was something i could do or say to make you feel better. all i no is that no matter what you are doing the best job. and you definately havent broken her! maybe talk to someone about how your feeling and someone that might be able to help you. huge hugs hun. always here if you need to vent

AFM - gotta dash my son has decided hes going to creep forward off his mat about 2 metres while im typing this and is almost about to head butt a wall hahah dork