Happy 24 weeks alannah and happy 21 weeks cooper and summer
Vix - thanks I am. Still definately have my moments but no where near as often. How are you going? That's awesome about your girly weekend, sounds nice. And clever miss alannah on sitting up. Cooper can do it for like 20-30 seconds and slowly leans forward to much haha its cute but and you can tell hes starting to control his balance like when he starts to lean he tenses to try and stay upright
Afm - had a loverly dinner with friends tonight and heading down to newy again tomoro just to look at shops with friends which will br nice but I must sleep now coz the weekends over so I'm back on baby duty night all xx
raffy -I mentioned to mum that I'm absolutely stuffed and would just like one night off to sleep and she offered to have him Tuesday night (her day off is wed). So that will be good.
vix -yeah I did mention it. was going to be putting him in for Mondays but J doesn't want him going to day care at all. because he is there and willing to take him. so if I put him in (was meant to be starting today) the court might say 'but if he's in childcare, why can't he spend more time with his father' and also I told him about it and said I wouldn't be putting him in. Because we have 18 years to deal with each other, and I don't want to start lying to him now. I need him to be able to trust me.
It WAS going to be a break day, and availability for when I go back to work. Not sure what the heck I"m doing about work because J doesn't even want me leaving V with my mum or whatever. But she has offered.
He would rather have him an hour away from me for the whole day. Than have him 10 minutes down the road with my mum. Either that or I work in his town and he CAN mind him. But then I have to find accommodation because I work shift and wouldn't want to drive to and from home at either 6am or midnight.
And I've lived between homes before while I was pregnant and it wasn't fun. It would be even worse with a baby. The most reasonable option for everyone would be for me to move back over there. But I'd have to sell my house, or rent it out. Both of which I've been considering but am not sure about.
Brydz - im glad your getting a night off tomoro, that will be nice, make the most of it sounds like your stuck between a rock and a hard place regarding care for V while your working. good luck with your decision and im sure whatever you decide will be the right one
Nikki. hope Summer is back to her usual self soon. how is Bens sleeping going? i saw on FB he had a good night the other night. must have been glorious i bet? any more like that?
Raffy, I must have jinxed myself by posting that. Last night I was up to him 6 times and fed him 4. I went to bed at 8.30pm hoping for a great nights sleep. He woke at 9.30, 11.30, 2.30 and 5 for a feed How is coops sleeping going? Still going through? Lucky duck!!
Nikki - aww that sucks, sorry to hear, hopefully he makes up for it tonight but sleeping through. Yep coops is still a trooper, I feel so blessed on a 'bad' night he'll sleep 8.30pm-6am but its usually bout 8.30-7 awake for an hour and sleeps again from 8-10. How is summer feeling now? I hope she's back to her usual self
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