Sangie, I can't believe you are bridesmaiding only a month after having a bub! I hope they are letting you wear a baby-doll style dress (or am I the only one that still has a big jelly belly?) Hope the mastitis is clearing up

Kosi, I hope your ILs are leaving soon. It is so not rude that they aren't allowed to smoke inside. I would spew if someone thought they could smoke inside my house, and I would get the cranks if they threw butts everywhere.

Sanchez, poo to every know-it-all out there. Just nod politely and then do whatever suits you. People love to know better than a first time mum, but you know your bub and what works for you. And you are right - at this age they don't self settle very well and you won't do any harm letting her fall asleep on the boob - that is what new babies are programmed to do.

Pooley, sounds like you are onto a winner with the tummy sleeping, bet you feel almost human today lol. Sounds like F is doing really well.

Amelia is doing so well, she just fits in so nicely. We are currently doing a mix of cot and co sleeping - if she settles in her cot then she stays there, if she won't stay asleep after a couple of attempts then I bring her into our bed. Last night she only woke at 3am, then came to our bed and slept until 6.30am, so not too bad.