Kell- We did the same, scattered the ashes but kept some, atm they're still in a pretty box, don't know what Df wants to do with them. We scattered him at the beach. Ash was the same as Jesse, didn't want to go near him at the hospital cause it wasn't the same 'papa' to her anymore which was sad in a way cause he adored her. She still talks about him but not sure really that she remembers him so well. She more comments to say papa in sky and today with the thunder that he was making noises. She does mention tho the photos at the funeral, they had a slide show and whenever we drive past the funeral place she says we went there and saw photos and she goes on to say papa not sick anymore in photos he's better. I think kids like to have an idea that someone is somewhere even tho they can't see them, she knows God and Jesus are looking after him.