Hi girls!

MD: wow! that is some makeover of ol' bosty! sooo funny that H fell for it....ahh a girl just like me (i was the chick that would check my hand for 'gullible' when my friends told me it was tatooed on there lol!!!).

Noni: so so sucky when you get sick like that. hopefully it will pass soon and that DH will give you a break sometime soon!

MP: well, as a girl who has faced quite a few m/c's i tend to just have a cry, lick my wounds and keep on going. i dont really tell anyone anymore as it is quite emotionally draining. all i can say is to not say the obvious: things like...'it wasnt meant to be', obviously the baby wasn't healthy' blah blah blah. they get my goat and it is one of the reasons why i dont bother telling anyone. i have to say that for me, distraction and 'normal' stuff is the best. so i drag my sorry bum to MG and have a good time and NOT think about it. so i guess as a friend, unless she brings it up and is after comfort, just be there for her as company and a friendly face ITMS. hth...

Ginger: oh i hear ya! leila is horrendous at the 'dare-devil' activities! whenever our MG get together and go to the park, i find i slowly but surely get really wound up as L is jumping OFF the slide (first she hangs off the bars above ). all their kids seem to play quite normally (ie not stretching the limits of the playground equipment usage LOL!). always relieved when we head off to the cafe with the ENCLOSED courtyard lol!

Oz: totally vegged out on Friday. it was blissful. it was ages since i had a day alone by myself, and it was sooo healing! felt alot better the next day as i just ended up sleeping the whole time (especially when i realised there was no oprah but some stupid golf on!).

AFM: well today was fun! we had our MG christmas brunch in the park...leila did her usual trick of leading the kidlets astray to the BIG FRIKKIN slide (one that is so high that you cant reach the kids at the top). but lots of food and lots of sun and lots fun. Leila is all tuckered out. she had a pretty bad fall though...smashed her face from a seat onto the concrete. so has a big scrape on her chin, phat lip and bleeding gums. everything is in place though and the ice-cube worked wonders.