Mp - big hugs, hope you're feeling better about the whole thing now.
Ginger - totally agree with you, there is no way I could hang around until an evening dinner,especially with two little ones.
Clare - Lol at the tantrums they have. We had a massive one last night because I put natural yogurt on her chili con carne when she wanted her vanilla yogurt we had bought that afternoon at the shops. I explanined numerour times that her yogurt was just for breakfast, but after ten minutes I told her that if I counted to three and she was still whinging she could go to her room for a couple of minutes - I didn't even get to one and she'd already stopped!
Noni - hope you and the others are on the mend up there.
Trill - welcome back from your holiday, tell us all about it! Did A like playing in the ocean? How many loads of washing have you had to get through??
Childcare Christmas party this evening, hope the sunny weather keeps up and we don't get the showers they are predicting.
Hi ladies just popping in - have been reading on my ph but don't have a lot of oomph so only short little stints. Exhausting work holding ph. Just wanted to pop in give big hugs to mm, noni and
Mp. brendan nelson is lovely, so glad u r all safe- someone is watching over u for sure. Xx
Re bugs - we have introduced the "danger!" don't touch cocncept . Works for bees snakes spiders elec outlets. We use big voice & snatch our hands back gesture to reinforce the meaning.
As for me it looks like I might be in a little longer as there is a bit of worry about the blood supply to the recon when I am upright so still on my back for most of the time. Am downplaying it to family cos I can't handle thevhysterical worry but but my dr is a bit nervous about it failing. So doing lots of deep breathing & visualizing it full of life energy. Accepting all healing vibes!
Can someone copy last para over to mssgs thread. I'm pooped. Xxxxx
MD, I copied your post over to the other thread xx
MP, OMG that must have been so scary! So glad N wasn't in the car and that J is too little to be scared beyond the initial accident.
Ginger, I agree - I would rather eat a sandwich at lunchtime than drag out the whole day waiting for an evening meal. It is presents in the morning, then a quiet lull, then lunch then the day pretty much returns to normal around here.
I have heaps of things I have been meaning to say for ages but I never seem to get the chance. We are going away this weekend to the beach, so hopefully the good weather holds. We ended up buying a dvd player for the car because to go anywhere is at least an hour each way from here and W is such a bad traveller. Hopefully it works.
Both kids slept though last night, A had a feed at 6am then they both slept until 8!
W's behaviour has improved, he isn't as compliant as he used to be but much better than a couple of weeks ago. I don't know if it was just a natural progression or if the vitamins I started him on have had an effect.
G: i too would be peeved at the change of plans. i dont do xmas dinner. mostly because like the others have mentioned..pressies in the morning, big lunch to the point of explosion and then nanna naps on and off until bedtime lol!
MD: sending loads and loads and more bucketloads of healing energy your way. xx you did well to type that message so soon after the op! and totally understand you not wanting to unnecessarily burden the family ATM...of course you dont want to shoulder all of it either on your own. i'm guessing your DH knows though?
Arte: ahhh so the sleep-in of the kidlets explains the cake baking at 7.30 this morning....
Cally: *snap* we too have the xmas kindy party!
hmm it has started bucketing down with rain...and we are on a bike home...shoulda taken the plane lol.
md- so nice to hear from you! healing vibes your way xoxo
clare- hhmm i think getting the plane home in the rain would've been a much nicer option! LOL
arte- i swear you will think the car dvd player is the best thing you've ever bought! we love ours
thanks for all your support re: xmas day. i was beginning to feel like i'm a psycho diva but i just think xmas dinner is stooopid. waiting around all day counting down the hours with 2 liitlies. my bro's gf is a total ball-breaking PITA. i'm tired of her calling the shots.
LOlclare the plane would have been handy!!
Thanks for all the good wishes and positive vibes - i am still a bit feaked uout by it all and of course layed awake half the night (the half iw asnt feeding LOL) thinking about all the 'what ifs...' i'll give myself today to worry/beat myself up and then move on i guess. i have a hire car now - ONG it is MASSIVe - one of those huge fords... dont like driving it! i feel like a 60 yr old man who has spent all his super on his dream car. Outlaws are coming this weekend, my FIL is going to love the car... not quite the yummy mummy mobile i wanted...
MD - so glad you are doing ok... what does it mean re the blood supply? i hope you are feeling good and sharing the burden, how is the fam getting along with you in hospy. thinking of you.
G - well obv i dont do xmas but i wouldnt be waiting around all day...
i reckon my boys and your J shold enter a baby girl comp... lol
btw got a nice shipment of oobi yest... oops! one of te little sunday suits for J - the rest were pressies...
Arte - jealous is all i can say (of the sleep)
md - sending super healing vibes ur way xoxox
mp - big hugs hope ur feeling much better now
g - i agree xmas dinner is a silly idea.. especially with kids!!
had ashas xmas party today.. it was great she really loved it and had a great day. still feeling off.. its really awful how long this is drawing out for i mean im not running to the toilet anymore but just a general feeling of crappyness
hope everyones having a good day!
Yes of coursedh knows - he is often here when the surgeons seeing me- it's more the parents who just don't need to be worrying. Mp the recon is made using tissue & muscle from the back which is still connected to it's original blood vessels. The surg can interrupt the supply & worse case the tissue can die & needs to be removed. My supply is good when I'm lying down but it gets pale& cool when I'm upright so it means I can only get up for short times so hence resting in hossy for longer. Blood supply will get better as time goes on so they tell me. I'm really just concentrating on sending my new boobie lots of love so she wants to stick around LOL. It really is a weird shape, it will settle down but I think it will have a couple of funny lumps & a flat spot permanently. My patchwork puppy LOL
Ginger just have chrissy lunch without them !! Litle kids take priority on christmas
brendan nelson is lovely, so glad u r all safe- someone is watching over u for sure. Xx
i mean im not running to the toilet anymore but just a general feeling of crappyness 
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