Ginger, how is L's head now? Is it J's birthday tomorrow?

Trill, thanks for that. I didn't take it the wrong way. He does about half of the things on the tactile dysfunction list and a few of the Aspergers ones too, but my mummy instinct says that isn't him iykwim. He is quite highly strung and is stubborn as all hell but I don't think it is out of the realm of normal toddlerhood for now. We actually had a good day today and I noticed that his last molar has now come through. We had a really rough patch in Nov/Dec when his other molars were coming too so I am hoping that we are over the worst of it now. He can be such a nice boy when sometimes and it is so hard when he turns into a tantrum monster.

MD, we send W to his room but he won't stay in there, I doubt that a time out spot would be very successful, especially since I have A to look after it so can't police it properly. DH is really good and takes the main share of dealing with him when he gets home from work and they go outside to do jobs over the weekend so I do get a bit of time W free.

Clare, I am sure that I felt A moving from about 12-13 weeks. I am another jealous one. I love having them wriggling around in my tummy. Glad the pets are on the mend.

Sorry for all my complaining lately. After having a good day today I am feeling much more refreshed. I did go to the Dr and they took some bloods (three failed arm needles and then the Dr came in to take it from my hand!) but they didn't show anything wrong. I guess it is just a combo of breastfeeding and not much sleep.