Kel- I can't believe men. trust me i have spoken to hubby like 100 hundred times, and it's just the same thing over and over. One time i yelled out ( not too loud though) saying that feels like im single doing it all by myself, i can do that u know, i said to him also that i don't need a flat mate i need a husband who will help me look after our son & he said well if u can't look after Jonathan u work and i will look after him and then i said it's not that i love looking after jonathan i just want you to help if not i might as well be single, and he didn't say anything. i can imagine with u have more kids will be harder, yeah u have to yell so they can listen, they don't offer u have to beg them or force them, like hello ur the father .
my friend is going through the same thing like u she has 2 girls and one on they way, but she fell pregnant she was doing everything on her own. when she needs to feed one of the girls and the other one goes spastic my friend yells out to her hubby, ummm you can help you know she's going mental. like urself when ur busy and the otherone cries and ur hubby is on the computer that drives me insane oh sweety hugs to u
kel- sweety thanx for listening. sorry for being such a drainer. I hope u have a good day. I'm off to do the laundry then going to k-mart. then getting ready to prepare for 2n, i tell ya not looking forward to it. I wish i could stay home, if i tell hubby that he might say ok u stay home and jonathan and i (hubby) we'll go, i'll be like no don't think so. any of his family events jonathan and i will not be apart.
Tasia.. yep retail theropy is always good for the nerves! Go buy yourself something ok! Oh they always think staying home and looking after the kids is a push over.. they think we must sit on our butts and the babies sleep all day! Until they have a day at home with them on their own they will never know. But its not just the kids its the house work and the meals and everything that has to be done too. I totally know how you feel though hun. I was the same even before Keira was in the picture. They may work but once work is finished they come home and relax and forget about work. Having kids and a house is a 24/7 job. I think we're entitled to some time to relax too! Big honey. Just get through tonight and it will be over with.. lol oh im the same.. if the kids are going, so am i! You keep smiling honey go have a coffee and a biccie while your out
Tasia - Oh hun sounds like you had a horrible night (especially) towards the end. I would have just taken the car and went home DH could have come home with his parents lol. If you need to catch just give me a call or even come over for a coffee I'm here for you sweet. BIG to you.
Kell - Oh it's nice to have time at home hey, hope your DH gets home on time.
Pixie - Yay on having a great night out, DH and I haven't been out on a date yet can't wait though, I'm just not ready for my parents to look after Isabel yet lol. Woohoo on Beth sitting on her own that is just wonderful, we have been trying to get Izzy to do the same but she falls to her side very funny.
Tannis - How is Jayden, hope he is feeling better today hun.
Mel - love your video of Mehkelti giggling she is just adorable.
Well DH is coming home today, he is currently in syd not far woohoo...
Tasia - BIG HUGS! I would have done the same thing as Mez said.. I would have just left with the bubba. Nah, men don't se things like we do. It's so hard and even when you spell it out it you're not even sure they get it or even have listened. My DP's tunes the boys out alot of the time and I'm like "Can't you hear the whinging?"
Kell - It's funny how DP/H's think when we're at home we do nothing but have like free time and do whatever we want, like looking after the kid(lets) isn't anything. Lol.
Tan - I hope Jayden is better today. I'd so the same thing as you're doing with the mattress. What a bargin on your dinner! I can't believe she didn't tell you she did anything to your chair when it happened. We always leave our christmas shopping till last minute. It's bad, I know but this year I've started early so I don't have to rush it. Lol.
Mez - your DH's almost home.
Pixie - Go Beth! We've been trying that with Bubbablue too. Sometimes he goes alright, then other times he does a face plant. Lololol. He's only doing the 3/4 roll still here too. He'll go so far over, then roll back to his back. Frustrating. How was the movie?
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Bubbablue has got these little spots on his tummy and sides and back, not raised or anything. They are like coming and going. We're thinking it's a type of heat rash. If it gets any worse we'll take him to get looked at. He actually seems quite alright today with his cold thingie too.
Hi to all! Just a quick one as gotta get back to organising for the move (can't believe only 3 sleeps to go!!)
Tasia - sounds very frustrating to me... You need to look after yourself and hubby needs to pull his head in. Maybe you should try some counselling? Often a third (unrelated) party can help put things into perspective for both partners. It's not a healthy environment for your son to be constantly yelling at each other just to get yourself heard. It's also not healthy for him to see his dad treat mum like this as it will set in his mind how women should be treated (or you could get lucky and it will teach him how women SHOULDN'T be treated). At any rate, it's bad for you both. I'm also concerned about post natal depression. You may not have it, but I'm sure all the stress and frustration certainly wouldn't help keep it away.
Big hugs to you, sweetheart...
And I'd be avoiding the baby #2 thing until you know hubby is worth it. Don't want two kids having to deal with having such a hopeless dad.
Wow. Only 3 dayssss?!?
I hope everything is going well with the organisation and goes smoothly on the day of the move.
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for your post for Tasia, SW. You always manage to say the right stuff in a perfect way. I wish I could say things like that. I have trouble getting it out of my head.
We have such a supportive group. I'm really thankful to be in this group with all you kind, thoughtful, wonderful mummies and daddy.
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SW- thanx for that sweety. It is fustrating. I am going to suggest councelling to him if things get worse. If i mention that to hubby he'll say wat r u talking about we r fine.
you're right it's not healthy for us to yell in front of Jonathan , that's why now i try not to yell cause he will pick up on it & we both don't want that. I'm teaching him from now to respect woman and not to yell at them, i know he doesn't understand.
No i don't have post-natal depression if i did he would know about it. But i'm not going to lie there is stress if he's not helping. His eczema is going really well, i'm using hydrocortisone cream, i'm not looking forward to summer as it will flare up. thanx sweety
Tenny- yeah sw has the answers for everything, she sounds like my friend, i really appreciate wat she is saying & she means well.
Missy- welcome back sweety
ok i'm off have a great night ladies and bear
take care and keep smiling
Tasia: Big for you hun! Your DH needs to be a lot more supportive of you! Did you go tonight? How did it go if you went? Personally I wouldn't have gone (depends on the occassion of course) I would have made DH go on his own! I know what its like to have the same old arguments all the time, its almost pointless discussing anything cause you know what the outcome will be! We are all here for you, so vent away! I'm always here too if you want to chat! Oh I'd hold off on baby #2 too, its not fair on you either to go through that as well as look after 2 young kids.
Kell: J was fine this morning, he had a great sleep in my bed haha Only his bed wasn't ready when we got home tonight so Chris put him in our bed and his pull ups leaked all over my bed! I was about to change it after I fixed up the washing too but didnt get there in time. He has a matress protector but he had wet that and I hadn't put it back on his bed after I washed it, luckily my bed had the underlay and it didn't go through that. When does BigW's 12c photos end? I want to get some more done and silly me left it till the last minute with the Harvey Norman ones.
Pix: YAY for Beth!! I bet she loved seeing her Daddy!! Great to hear you had a good night out!
Mez: How are you? J is much better thanks hun!
Tenny: Thanks, the matress turned out fine too luckily! My niece is so naughty like that! GL with your xmas shopping, this year and when I was on leave with J is the only times I have had the shopping done early.
Missy: Welcome home! Glad you had a great time!
It was so hot here today! I love the heat but I was too tired to enjoy it. I got to sleep in until 9am this morning (very rare!) although I did feed Ashlea at 6am. This afternoon we went to SIL's for a swim which was sooo nice!
AF has gone already, she was only here for 3 days and it was so light anyway....who knows whats going on there as I thought the 1st one was meant to be heavier?? Anyone know? Its probably different for each person. If AF has to come every month now I hope its stays as this one was haha.
Quiet day tomorrow I think, I have neglected the house all weekend.
Well I'm off to finish some washing and clean up a little....less I have to do tomorrow.
go have a coffee and a biccie while your out 
your DH's almost home.
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for your post for Tasia, SW. You always manage to say the right stuff in a perfect way. I wish I could say things like that. I have trouble getting it out of my head. 
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