Kel- I can't believe men. trust me i have spoken to hubby like 100 hundred times, and it's just the same thing over and over. One time i yelled out ( not too loud though) saying that feels like im single doing it all by myself, i can do that u know, i said to him also that i don't need a flat mate i need a husband who will help me look after our son & he said well if u can't look after Jonathan u work and i will look after him and then i said it's not that i love looking after jonathan i just want you to help if not i might as well be single, and he didn't say anything. i can imagine with u have more kids will be harder, yeah u have to yell so they can listen, they don't offer u have to beg them or force them, like hello ur the father .
my friend is going through the same thing like u she has 2 girls and one on they way, but she fell pregnant she was doing everything on her own. when she needs to feed one of the girls and the other one goes spastic my friend yells out to her hubby, ummm you can help you know she's going mental. like urself when ur busy and the otherone cries and ur hubby is on the computer that drives me insane oh sweety hugs to u