i just wanted to second (or third or fourth ) that it's not unusual at that age - DS went through a phase where i had to hold him for all naps & lots during the day. then he just grew out of it - i didn't even really notice when it stopped.

tbh, we're still having the night issues but i figure my little man still hasn't been in the world for as long as i was PG & there's no hurry.

i don't think you've spoilt your baby at all - showing that you'll respond to his needs & be there for him isn't spoiling imo, it's demonstrating love