Anna, we had a bit of a discussion about our routines recently in the 1-6 month forum. Most of the girls found that the babywise kind of routine didn't work for them and let thier babies set thier own routines but if its working for you then stick with it. If you thought that you are doing a good job then you probably are. Whatever parenting style you choose there will be people and websites to slam it. Don't forget that to put up a website all you need is a server, a web design program and a point of view. Expertise is optional. Personally I like the happy baby/happy mummy parenting philosophy. The way it goes is, if baby and mummy are happy then everyone else can keep thier opinions to themselves.
With the wrapping I thought that Yasin hated it too but then one of my friends told me that her echn said that all new mothers thought that thier babies hated wrapping and convinced me to try it a couple of times and to my suprise it worked. In the heat I just dress him in a nappy and singlet and use a muslin wrap.