Hey Pam, glad there is someone else in here too!! IKWYM about having time though - its a toss up at the moment, spend time on the internet of sleep when I can.

Emily also has an erratic feeding pattern, at times (mostly) she will go 3 hours but then like last night she wanted food every hour from 8-1.30 when she finally slept for 5 hours yey. She is definently confused about day vs night and the midwives have encouraged me to keep her awake after day time feeds for about an hour - no mean feat let me tell you. I feel like the biggest, meanest parent that ever lived. But will keep trying if it means at 2am she will go back to sleep and not want to play.