Donella - We have decided not to get Benjamin done after all. They don't do the bell method here until they are 6 months and I heard from someone else that it can cause the poor unsuspecting child a fair bit of pain. I couldn't put our boy through that. If we had Benjamin in Brisbane, it may have been different. DH doesn't want him done either.

Candice - Benjamin has a lot of "awake time" now. He can be awake for at most 3 hours, before he gets grumpy and you know he needs to sleep, but he refuses to incase you might leave him. Pity the time is usually when DH comes home or when I'm trying to have breakfast. He doesn't like to be put down in this time, otherwise he screams until someone picks him up again.

Melissa