Thanks Kelly - I'm sure that will ease a lot of our anxieties in here! It's sad to hear about babies no longer making eye contact if they are put into a rigid routine... I love the way Dylan looks up at me when he's feeding - it's my favourite thing he does!!

We don't try and follow a routine - just feed him at night and let hime sleep - last night I fed him at 8.30 pm expecting him to wake for another feed after "Maid in Manhatten"(!) but he was still fast asleep so I went to bed and he didn't wake up until 3am!!! Then he settled again from 4am till 8.45! I didn't know a baby could sleep that much in one night, but it was great for us to have a sleep in. I don't expect it will happen again for a while though...

How did everyone else go last night?