Cherry- I apologize if I caused any offense. Sometimes I find that I accidentally stumble across an answer to a problem I'm having as I talk it out, I thought perhaps you'd done the same there. Was only trying to help.

I've always been blessed with beautiful skin, but I do know what its like to have your self-image shattered because of a "cosmetic" imperfection. I'm only just now barely able to allow myself to smile with no reservations- I have massive gap between my front teeth that I've never had the extra money to "fix." I've pretty much made my peace with it now, but its been hard.

Whatever you decide, your baby will love you the same either way. And its best for baby to have a happy, healthy mum. Good luck with the dr.