Fee - this is the reason I have been putting off DTD as well - I am dead scared it will tear again - (irrational perhaps but still a real fear in my head), ok well that and the fact I'm super tired, can't be bothered, never seem to feel like it.

It sounds scary going back to the OB - the stitches hurt enough the first time around, it would be hard to go through that again - not being able to sit and having to wee with my forehead practically touching the floor!!