Has anyone gone through this?

At my 6 week check up with the OB he mentioned that my episiotomy cut and natural tears had healed a bit too tightly. He said if I had problems with DTD to come back and see him. But he said the best thing was to DTD to stretch things.

Anyway DTD is HOPELESS. It's hard enough finding the time and also being in the right mood. So we've only tried twice and it HURT. Couldn't go through with it. Not sure if it's in my head or it really is that bad.

I've now decided that I should probably see my OB again to get fixed. I'm scared.