We use a combination of withdrawal, condoms (they make me bleed and then I am out of action for a week afterwards) and then family planning. DD is just over 4months now and fully BF. There are no immediate plans for a surgical method which is our only option for contreception. We just want to make sure the decision to not have more is more concrete before DH has a vasectomy. I would love another, DH is not wanting anymore only because of finances but his the one that wont have the vasectomy just yet. I'm pushing him to do it so I can move on from the idea I may have another in me.