I can't tolerate condoms - its very burny and its a once then not again for a fortnight kind of thing because it takes that long for the discomfort to go away. I think you can get some that aren't latex

Can't offer any suggestions - DH had the snip last Friday and except for one time since Miss A's birth five months ago he's been worshipping me from afar ;-) I'm waaaaaay too tired