Thanks all, I thought maybe there was something I was missing, it came across like it was MY sole responsibility and I HAD to go on something straight after birth which I mean seriously, like I'm letting Dad2be anywhere near my bits straight after birth lmao. Dad2be is even willing to get the snip but I said no as this is our first and we may want more later on.

Think I will just tell my midwife appointments I've already talked to my GP and my GP that I've already talked to a midwife lol