I don't I'm more proactive in that I don't think some things happen unless you put in the effort and work towards it sometimes were blessed and things do happen and sometimes crap happens and they don't I believe In God and that he helps us with things and guides us and I believe there is a place for positive confession and thinking and that negative confession and thinking can hinder things

And also think that Gods timing comes into play too it took us a year to get preg with ds and as anxious as I was for it to happen it was not Gods timing now he could have made it happen earlier had I nagged enough but in waiting I went through a journey and also deepens my relationship with him and having my son at the time that I did was a huge blessing and many good things that wouldn't have had I had him earlier