Thanks SarahJane, it's good to know that what I've been doing intuitively fits in with what has been documented as being "right". I agree that some rituals are very affirming. However, (and at the risk of me being thought of as a crazy woman) the way that I have an almost constant inner dialogue with God through out my day I think is just as important. He is really at the forefront of my thinking, not just something that I think about during a ritual or going to church.