thread: 15 weeks and buns gone :(

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  1. #1
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    Dec 2005
    In Bankworld with Barbara
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    I am so sorry that your little boy left far, far too soon I hope that the return to work isn't hard on you and that you are surrounded by loads of love and support.

  2. #2
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    Dec 2007
    Taking a ride on my grdonkey :D
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    Sweetie... I am so, so sorry for your loss.
    Fly free little Dylan - look after your mummy and give her the strength she needs to deal with losing you.

    Please take it easy on yourself, hun - take time off work if you need to. I know I would be too heartbroken to face going to work so soon.
    *big hugs* My thoughts are with you.

  3. #3
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    Feb 2007
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    I have no leave at work to take, not that I really care at the moment. Hospital didn't do anything I went there with cramping, bleeding and told them I think my waters broke and I got sent home with panadene fort and told to go home, went home, slept for an hour then woke up in a pool of blood and went to the toilet and there was bubs still attached to me... I screamed for DP, he came running and said whats wrong, I said Im not pregnant anymore, he asked how and I opened the door and said because Im holding our dead baby... he was devistated. I wasn't given any counselling support just a booklet on "early pregnancy, when things go wrong" pretty much gives you a definition of the different types of miscarriage then says you didn't do anything wrong and 95% of women have a healthy baby next time around. That's all, I'm young so I "shouldn't be worried I have plenty time"

  4. #4
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    Oct 2006
    Sydney NSW
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    That's awful, you have been through a major trauma they should be offering you grief counselling or somehting more than what they have.
    Just remember you have everyone here at BB.

  5. #5
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    Oct 2007
    Eastern Wheatbelt WA
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    Hospital didn't do anything I went there with cramping, bleeding and told them I think my waters broke and I got sent home with panadene fort and told to go home, went home, slept for an hour then woke up in a pool of blood and went to the toilet and there was bubs still attached to me... I screamed for DP, he came running and said whats wrong, I said Im not pregnant anymore, he asked how and I opened the door and said because Im holding our dead baby... he was devistated. I wasn't given any counselling support just a booklet on "early pregnancy, when things go wrong" pretty much gives you a definition of the different types of miscarriage then says you didn't do anything wrong and 95% of women have a healthy baby next time around. That's all, I'm young so I "shouldn't be worried I have plenty time"
    I'm really sorry, that should not have happened to you.

    I'm disgusted in the hospital

  6. #6
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    Aug 2008
    qld
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    O hun, i am very sorry for your loss.
    My heart broke when i read your post, please know you are not alone, we are all here for you.
    Dylan is such a beautiful name.
    Fly free little one.

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    1998 11 weeks playing with the angels in heaven
    2009 6.2 weeks daddy misses u deeply

  7. #7
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    Apr 2007
    Inner South East suburbs Melbourne
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    How heartbreaking for you - I can't imagine. God bless you and your perfect angel - I wish you peace and rest. Take care.